Hold everyone accountable – including yourself – to the standards set forth by the Triune God of the Universe in His word, the Bible.
Subscribe your arguments to the Declaration of Independence, the Constitution, and / or the Bill of Rights. Be ready to learn and help those willing, to do the same.
Be equally informed on both sides of the discussions pertinent to the issues in your Top-3 or Top-5 list. Never believe just one side.
My personal story is extraordinary not because of what I contributed to it, but because the Great Author, the Triune God of the Universe and History, is extraordinary in and by Himself. And I feel the need to act, to speak out, to write because behavior matters, Truth matters, reality matters.